Interracial Dating: Why You Should Support It

Countless arguments have been made regarding interracial relationships. Some are for it and some are against it. Those who are against it have a wide range of reasons.

These arguments have divided families, friends, and cultures for years and the problem still exists today. While I am not here to judge anyone regarding their opinion of interracial dating, I am here to give my opinion based on my personal experience and observations.

For the record, and just in case anyone has the need to know, I am a black woman (married to a black man) who is in support of interracial relationships and all those who are bold enough not to let themselves be defined by the opinions of others.

I believe that many of you would agree that by far, the most criticized of interracial relationships is that of a black man and a white woman. Either the parents of the black man do not approve of their son dating a white woman or the parents of the white woman are not pleased with her selection of a black man.

I have also heard many people argue that a black man only wants a black woman when he has nothing and this changes when he has made a name for himself. My belief and observations tell me this is NOT true. There are many successful black men that are married to beautiful black women (i.e. President Obama).

When I reflect on this issue, my thoughts go to a darker time in black history when black men were literally beaten and murdered for showing interest in a white woman. We now live in a new day where things are not perfect but thanks to God and the blood, sweat, and tears of our ancestors, they are better.

My opinion of this is that if a black man can be free to date a woman that he chooses to date without fear for his life than I am in support of that action. While some feel that a black man who chooses to date a white woman is a sign of him rejecting black women, I am here to say that I do not now nor will I ever share this opinion.

Let’s just say for arguments sake that there is a minority of people out there who choose to date outside of their race because they feel there is something better on the outside. Then, that is their decision and nothing we should lose sleep over. If that is the way that person feels than that is someone you should not want anyway.

The question that continues to occur to me is: Why aren’t people more concerned about healthy relationships than interracial relationships?

My children are growing up fast and before I know it they will be grown up and involved in relationships with people they deem worthy. My concern for my son as well as my daughters is that they are involved with someone who treats them like the king and queens they are.

FACT: Good people and bad people come from all races and cultures.

Just because I happened to fall in love with a wonderful black man does not mean that I expect my children to only date someone black. I want them to be with someone good.

I believe that having a negative attitude towards interracial relationships cripples us and is an insult to everyone who came before us that fought for equality.

I challenge each and every one of us to look inside ourselves and be honest about our opinions and the reasons behind them. Pray about how God would have each of us to think and feel. Also, pray that our words and actions are a good example for our children, as they really are our future.

My prayer is that regardless of whom you choose to date, marry, or have as a friend, that you accept all who bring something positive to your life and leave behind those who drain you of those same positive things.

Are You Dating His Blackberry?

Are you getting unexpected cute little text messages? Are you finding thoughtful emails, even perhaps romantic poetry in your inbox? Well there is a good chance that you are now dating your lover’s electronic communications device.

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Once upon a time men barely knew how to use the telephone. Nowadays they have surpassed letting their fingers do the walking and just let their trusty Girlfriend-X program do all the work.

Yes ladies; Girlfriend-X not only emails and texts you all those cute little notes that make you adore him, it also figures ratios on how much a female is costing him compared to sexual encounters with her.

Not only is this beyond disgusting it puts the “ick” in pathetic. This program lets guys juggle their conquests by keeping track of any girl’s Birthday’s and every notable event so that if he pays the right attention might score him a few extra points.

This is technology at its worst. This program is aiding men in becoming the big-time player they always dreamed of being. Anyone using this program has basically submitted to the fact that they are a hopeless loser who needs a palm pilot to get them a date.

The ladies are feeling victimized and DE-humanized by this wireless manipulation. Others are just laughing at the fools who are using this technology. “This takes male laziness to a whole new low” claims one popular model when asked about it.

Men are often upset when women man bash. Women often become feeling embittered after repeated relationship disasters with players and dogs. The good guys aren’t talking the bad guys out of player behavior; they are only complaining to the women “why are you so guarded and angry?” How UN-phased and open are women supposed to remain? Especially with new gadgets created to help men trick them?

Guys… grow up, learn how to handle dating or stop trying to date. Women have feelings that get really hurt by stuff like this. This is what makes you the creepo! If a girl rolled her eyes and twisted her lips thinking about how many shags it took her to get a piece of jewelry out of some poor slob, men would call her a bad woman.

Using electronic devices to control a relationship is begging her to run away from you as fast as she can, and she no doubt will once she finds out about it.

Top Guide of Interracial Dating

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Women are not entirely parts of meat, and shouldn’t be treated as such. Generally, interracial girls are extremely delightful. Black ladies are like any other ladies As you satisfy various interesting black ladies you can discover that you’re attracted to one in particular.

Do not concentrate on the reality which you’re dating a black woman and demean her as an exotic thing, concentrate on her as the exceptional individual you’re dating and all the outstanding things which make her a fascinating person. Black women are joined with strength, for they aren’t generally seen as simply a strong black woman. Black ladies and minority ladies generally, are normally held accountable for instilling culture and keeping up it.

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No one desires to go to a website and see lots of profiles with no pics. These sites normally supply the very best results for singles which are open to exceptional encounters, many different folks, and individuals who don’t exactly have only one type’ per say. You can enroll for distinct interracial websites and connect with distinct folks. These free dating sites often have some ads on the internet site to cover the internet host and domain name. For all those attempting to test out something from the box, joining a reputable interracial dating site would be perfect sense. There are several interracial dating sites where you’re able to take chances who have any person at any moment and any area.

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Where most people now think that those they care about will accept their relationship when they see that they’re content with the person they’re dating this isn’t usually true. Interracial relationships can benefit those involved in a variety of ways. To conclude if you’re in an interracial relationship of any type, you will most likely experience some kind of resistance.

Your relationship will profit from this kind of attitude. If a person makes your relationship about two or more people loving one another, then they’re projecting an anticipation on you and it isn’t fine. Along with that, but my only significant relationship has been with a guy beyond my race. Though dating in your race has its advantages too, there are specific things that generate interracial relationships very special. Some people become involved in interracial relationships only determined by the stereotypes that might be associated with a certain race.

The appealing appearance of an interracial love interest is just part of the possible compatibility. There’s nothing wrong with interracial relationship. Normally, it really isn’t until another man admits the basic fact that we’re interracial that I even contemplate it. Joining an internet dating community will have the capacity to assist you to adjust as you detect various people that possess numerous ethnic sources.